{"id":7784,"date":"2022-10-18T17:38:56","date_gmt":"2022-10-18T15:38:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/expatkaliningrad.com\/?p=7784"},"modified":"2022-10-19T20:39:35","modified_gmt":"2022-10-19T18:39:35","slug":"toast-making-in-russia-an-important-tradition","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/expatkaliningrad.com\/ru\/toast-making-in-russia-an-important-tradition\/","title":{"rendered":"Toast Making in Russia an Important Tradition"},"content":{"rendered":"
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There’s more to it than Na zdorovye!<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Published: 19 October 2022 ~ Toast Making in Russia an Important Tradition<\/p>\n\n\n\n

One of the great joys of making friends in Russia is the party invitation. Birthday, anniversary, public holiday or simply a get together in someone\u2019s home, whatever the occasion and scale, you can always be assured of a warm welcome, tasty food, plenty of vodka and good company.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Like any party should be, Russian parties are a celebratory experience, an opportunity to bring family and friends together in an atmosphere of goodwill and conviviality. But Russian parties are more than that. They enable the participants to express their feelings openly to the person or persons to whom the event is devoted, and to pledge their admiration, esteem and\/or love for them before and in front of the company present.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Toasts, personal speeches in someone\u2019s honour culminating in the act of drinking to their health and good fortune are, you might be surprised to learn, even more traditional and realistically Russian than bears, snow and furry hats with ear flaps. No matter where you are or who you are with in Russia, once the drinking starts a toast or several is unavoidable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As someone who has no difficulty saying \u2018cheers\u2019 before I raise my glass (don\u2019t even think of it!) but is by no means qualified as an after-dinner speaker, the seemingly natural public-speaking faculty of ordinary Russians never ceases to amaze me. If anything exceeds this skill, then it can only be the speaker\u2019s ability to thoroughly bare his or her soul to the loved one or dear friend to whom the toast is pledged. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Toast making in Russia is an important tradition<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

I was once inclined to believe that Russians must spend ages learning, rehearsing and polishing their toasts but, having witnessed toasts every bit as touching and verbally accomplished at impromptu gatherings as at pre-planned ones, I am driven to conclude that the Russian nation is endowed with a certain remarkable and natural propensity for oratorical genius. It is a national characteristic that tends to belie the notion that the only toast you need to know in Russia is the one that hardly anyone uses, Na zdorovye!<\/em> ~ which literally means \u2018To health!\u2019 But if you are lost for anything better to say, then this is better than nothing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is expected of all party guests that at some point in the proceedings a toast will be presented. Sometimes toasts are organised on a formal, rotational basis but mostly toasts are performed ad hoc, when and as occasion dictates. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is to be reasoned that the necessity of committing oneself to such a public undertaking is not to be relished by shrinking violets, a plant with which I am personally acquainted and one to which I am most endeared, but if long experience has taught me anything it is that necking sufficient vodka before you take centre stage is often conducive to a fair result. If you are more than a trifle self-conscious, it helps considerably to make your debut at a later rather than earlier spot in the course of the festivities, by which time, it is to be hoped, you will have accumulated enough Russian Courage (which is not dissimilar to the Dutch variety) to impress yourself and the rest of the room. And even if you do muck it up, chances are by then that most everyone around you will be safely in the same squiffy boat and your falling headlong overboard won\u2019t be particularly noticeable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The art of toast making in Russia<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s a very good chance that if you have been called upon to make speeches at UK parties and have developed a knack for it, that it won\u2019t help you in Russia at all. Unlike in the UK, where short party speeches err towards the frivolous or are laced with suggestive digestives and saucy innuendo, the intimacy of Russian toasts tend to be pitched on a quite different level.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Some may be intellectual, some political, some artistic, but almost all Russian toasts, whatever form they take, are philosophical, frank, open and sincere, and resonate with the quality of unalloyed genuine feeling. When Russian relatives and friends toast fellow relatives and friends, they do so from the bottom of their heart. They do so with unreserved emotion and a poetry of the soul that is the touchstone of love and integrity. There is nothing to ask and nothing to doubt. The sentiments expressed emanate from and reaffirm the importance of traditional values, the core values of family and friendship, and their intimate public disclosure strengthens inter-family and community ties on which social cohesion depends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Good Russian parties, like everything else in life, eventually come to an end, but the feel-good factor lives on, not just in the individual in whose honour the party has been held but in each and everyone who has attended and contributed to and embraced the ethos of kinship and camerarderie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The photographs included within this post are from a recent party of innumerable toasts. I could have lost count of the number of toasts and could have remarked, had I been sober, on the emotional, poetic and linguistic integrity with which these toasts were delivered, but I was too busy raising my glass (there he goes again!) between taking turns on the dance floor.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Six of the best for raising my glass too often!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n
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Toast at undercover Soviet Spy Centre UK<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Note the retrospective Soviet theme and the wonderful, old, industrial building in which this event took place!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Links to posts recent and not so recent<\/strong>
Remembering Victor Ryabinin an artist from K\u00f6nigsberg<\/a>
Eastward expansion of the West ~ the real reasons<\/a>
What makes Kaliningrad fleamarket a junk buyer’s paradise?<\/a>
Kaliningrad leaves autumn to the leaf suckers<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Copyright \u00a9 2018-2022 Mick Hart. All rights reserved.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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